Showing posts with label legalities. Show all posts
Showing posts with label legalities. Show all posts

Monday, January 9, 2012

Be veeeewwy quiet!

I'm hunting houses!

I've been busy changing my name on every single piece of plastic I own, and a few other non-plastic things, and Kyle and I are looking at houses!!

Can I just tell you first... changing my name on all my credit cards was disturbingly easy. I mean, not like it's a big deal, not like anyone would do that, maliciously, posing as you... that would be really silly... but it was literally as simple as writing an e-mail to customer service that read something like:

"I just got married and I don't see on your website how to change my name." to get a response back that reads:

"What's your new name?"

And that's it!
Driver's license required a (blessedly) short trip to the DMV but other than that, everything but passport is updated with new name (and I'll take care of that when I actually need it)!

But what (besides graduating of course!) has been occupying my thoughts while I wait for the DVD with our wedding pictures (sent in the mail today!!!)?!?! House hunting! It amazes me so far how helpful everyone is. Real Estate agents, loan people, financial advisors, they're popping up everywhere! But I take it as a huge compliment that our friends and family have been so helpful. I mean, at least they're not giving unsolicited advice... that's my least favorite kind of advice.

Anyway, I only mention it (and will not dwell on it too much) because it's kinda' fun thinking about where you wanna' live and what kind of house you're going to move into. You know, grownup stuff. Also, I was amazed at the options we have, I guess because I didn't think we could afford some of the houses that are in our price range. You wanna' see some??

**Note to my Daddy-o; we have not gone to see any yet, don't you worry, I'm not looking at houses without you. (My dad loves looking at houses... weird, right?!)

 We can afford a yard!! and hardwood floors! and good school districts!
Even cute little stone-front houses with pretty trees in pretty little neighborhoods. It really hit me, while driving around looking at these places and looking them up on various real estate websites, that we're moving out of Southwest Philly!!! Into a house that will fit all of our stuff and there will be a yard!! and a garage!! and a basement!!

Now, I don't mean to imply that I think we're horribly impoverished, but we have been living in an old, rundown, relatively small (for the two of us, GFN roommate and a dog AND all our stuff), craptastic townhouse for FIVE YEARS! And I had forgotten what it was like to have a yard and a garage and a safe place to barbeque.

No more ranting, just a few more houses though, the area in PA we're looking at happens to have a number of fantastic converted old farmhouses too!

Yeah, exposed beams, old fireplaces...



Huge, old, imposing places...





With old hardwood floors and big windows!





And my favorite; the only way you can sell these places is by keeping all the turn-of-the-century charm but updating the appliances!




All home photos are from www.weichert.com



So anyway, it all sounds well and good now, but we actually have a tough decision and a lot of work to do (pre-approval, actually looking at the houses, actual approval, and I'm sure, a lot of paperwork...
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BUT we're moving soon!!! and I'm sooo excited!!! Not just to get out of Southwest Philly, but also because it will be like solidifying that mine and Kyle's life together is starting off on a strong foundation (although, anyone who can live through five+ years of our place has built a strong foundation, Ithankyou).

Anyway, if I seem preoccupied or am absent for awhile, it's because we've actually been spending a lot of time making sure we make the right decision here. It's kind of funny in that it's similar to wedding planning in that you spend hours collecting data and stats and necessary info and then you make lots of lists. But it's also very much not like wedding planning in that the wedding was one day, this is... longer...

BUT, as I mentioned earlier, the DVD with wedding pictures is IN THE MAIL!!! on it's way to my greasy mitts!! And I can't wait to do recaps!! I've also already started getting my inspiration vs. reality boards together. Eeee!! I can tell you're all just as excited as I am! Seriously though, I could write a whole long-winded post on how awesome my photographer is and how obliging and patient he's been with me, all to give us a fantastic final product that I CANNOT WAIT to share with you!!!

For now, back to work, very shortly, RECAP TIME!!!

Monday, January 2, 2012

Finally!!!

After weeks of not being sure how to sign checks and credit card slips (well, I still have to change my name on all my credit cards, but, one step at a time) I finally have an official, recognized new name!

Now if only my pictures would come in so I could start recaps... I'm so sorry to say I'm more excited about those than a new SSN card!

Saturday, December 17, 2011

Schmoozing while dancing, part III

As promised, there were other people at the wedding, and they got down and jiggy with it as well:
My uncle and cousin (she wore cowboy boots, she was my hero of the night!)
My cousins Gracie and Jason
Kyle's cousin Lindsay and her husband Jay
No wedding is complete without some polka, at least no wedding in Kyle's family. I mean, I bet you didn't have a air violin solo at your wedding, and when you add polka too?! It's like the coolest thing ever.
Anywho, Kyle's grandmother and great aunt know how to polka because they're from Pennsylvania Dutch country.

So then I find out that my aunt and uncle Keirsten and Kirby can polka too! Because Aunty K is also from PA Dutch country!! I was so proud to also have some lovable weirdos in my family as well ;)
So now I'm going to make your teeth hurt with some adorable pictures of us dancing with kids... Ready for your daily dose of just-too-cute?!
Me and my boss's daughter
Me with Jason and Harper, two of my cousins
Kyle with my cousin Kelsey
Kyle with my cousin Alex; you might be saying "she's not a kid" but this one is particularly adorable because Alex just had hip surgery and she was determined that she was going to be well enough to dance at my wedding so Kyle made sure she danced.
Awwwwwwww........

Then we just generally partied with our friends... Woot woot to Nick for providing all the fantastic music:
Big shout out to Kathleen, Emily G, Julie, Mia, Dan, Keri, Lauren, Kenny, Audrey, Shane, Jaime, Matt, Danny... and if I'm missing anyone it's because you didn't get up and dance; your loss.







"Heeeeeeeeyy!!"

Not sure what Lindsay is doing here but so glad she had a good time
Someone had to snap Kyle's suspenders at some point during the night.

Lindsay's goliath of a brother, Josh, wouldn't dance with us, so Lindsay was hassling him
Then I had to show him how to dance.
He ran away...


Great hug. I think Jay and I have big love between us because we're both the outsiders coming into this crazy family. We gotta' stick together.

These two are trouble.
Huge thanks again to Danny for flying from Denver to come to our wedding!!




I EVEN GOT MY BROTHER TO DANCE WITH ME!!
I wish this picture was in focus, my cousin Michelle's face is priceless.
But in general, I also love our fuzzy pictures.
Family love!! See, everyone had fun with us!

This ends my collection of family/friend facebook pictures. Honeymoon recaps still to come, and real recaps soon because our DVD of images is on its way! Thanks to Ben, as always! Thank you cards, registry stuff, and Memorializing; the vows, albums, framed stuff... there's still plenty more wedding stuff to talk about!

In non-image-related news- I applied for my new social security card!!! The US government now recognizes my new name! Not so with the DMV or any of my credit card companies yet, but... they will. It still almost feels like forgery to write my new name. I almost feel like that giddy girl who used to write her married name on her notebooks in middle school except it would be Ashley Gordon-Levitt or Ashley Taylor Thomas or Ashley Timberlake (I'm having trouble typing for cracking up over here). But, get it?? It feels like that! I guess I consider myself lucky though that it makes me feel so giddy and girly.